Sex Therapy in Malayalam: Support for Your Sexual Wellbeing
Are you struggling with your sexual wellbeing but staying silent due to stigma or fear of being judged? Whether you are in a relationship or not, our experienced sex therapists offer confidential support to help improve your sexual health and rebuild confidence.
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Fathimath Shamneera
Psychosexual Counsellor
5+ Years of experience
Starts at ₹1500 per session
Expertise: Career guidance Behavioural modification
Speaks: English, Malayalam
Session Mode: Video, Voice
Expertise: Career guidance Behavioural modification
Speaks: English, Malayalam
Session Mode: Video, Voice
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Aysha Fabeela
Psychosexual therapist
13+ Years of experience
Starts at ₹2000 per session
Expertise: Career guidance Behavioural modification
Speaks: English, Malayalam
Session Mode: Video, Voice
Expertise: Career guidance Behavioural modification
Speaks: English, Malayalam
Session Mode: Video, Voice
Next available slot:
Why You Need a Sex Therapist
- Talk openly in your mother tongue.
- Break the cultural silence around intimacy.
- Connect deeply with a therapist who understands your culture.
- Share sensitive issues with confidence.
- Express emotions clearly and comfortably
- Feel truly heard and supported
Step-by-Step: Online Counseling for You
- Book Your Session Easily – Choose a time that fits your schedule, from anywhere in the world.
- Private 1:1 Video or Audio Session – Talk openly in a safe, judgment-free space.
- Confidential Support – Your privacy is always protected, so you can share freely.
- Personalized Guidance – Get expert advice tailored to your sexual health and relationship needs.
- Actionable Steps – Learn practical strategies to improve intimacy and overcome concerns.
- Ongoing Support – Follow-up sessions help you track progress and stay confident.
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Any Questions?
Do I need to be in a relationship to be in sex counselling?
No. Sex counselling is open to both individuals and couples, whether married or unmarried. You do not need to be in a relationship to seek support for your sexual wellbeing.
I have been married for many years. Is it too late to seek sex counselling?
Not at all. People seek sex counselling at different stages of their lives and relationships. Support can be helpful at any point, regardless of how long you have been married.
What should I expect during a sex therapy session online?
An online session of sex therapy is similar to an in-person session, except it is conducted through a secure platform that allows you to access support from the comfort of your home.
What will happen during the first session with a sex counsellor?
The first session focuses on understanding your concerns, experiences, and goals related to sexual wellbeing. The sex counsellor will listen carefully so that in the future sessions both of you can work together to arrive at personalised solutions.
How many sessions will I need with a sex therapist before I notice a difference?
This varies from person to person. Progress depends on your goals and concerns, and therapy is a gradual process rather than a quick fix.
Can sex therapy help with erectile dysfunction?
Yes, sex therapy can be an effective way to address erectile dysfunction especially when psychological factors such as stress or anxiety are involved.
What happens in sex therapy?
Sex therapy is professional counseling that helps individuals and couples understand their sexual feelings, resolve sexual concerns, and improve intimacy. It works for everyone—men, women, and couples—regardless of age or relationship status. The goal is to make sexual and emotional connections more comfortable, meaningful, and satisfying.
Sexual difficulties can arise from many causes:
- Physical health issues: Chronic illness, injuries, or certain medications can affect sexual function
- Mental health challenges: Anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem can reduce desire and satisfaction.
- Relationship issues: Lack of emotional connection, communication problems, or unresolved conflicts.
While medications or medical treatments can help in some cases, they may not fully address underlying issues and can sometimes cause side effects. Sex therapy provides safe, effective solutions to enhance sexual well-being without extra risks.
What happens in sex therapy?
Sex therapy helps partners identify their sexual goals and build stronger emotional and physical connections. Regular sessions can gradually improve pleasure, intimacy, and overall satisfaction.
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Causes, Issues, and Challenges of Sexual Wellness
Sexual wellness depends on many factors, including physical health, mental health, relationships, and lifestyle. When sexual wellness is affected, it can impact both personal and relationship well-being.
Challenges Caused by Poor Sexual Wellness
- Relationship Strain: Sexual dissatisfaction can reduce emotional closeness and trust between partners.
- Mental Health Issues: Persistent sexual problems can lead to anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.
- Physical Health Problems: Pain during sex or loss of libido may signal underlying health issues.
- Substance Use: Some may use alcohol or drugs to cope with sexual difficulties, which can create additional problems.
- Social Isolation: Shame or embarrassment can lead to withdrawal and loneliness.
- Loss of Intimacy: Reduced sexual connection can weaken emotional bonds with a partner.
- Marital Conflicts: Unresolved sexual issues can lead to misunderstandings, tension, or divorce.
- Decreased Confidence: Sexual difficulties can damage self-esteem and self-worth.
- Risk of Infidelity: Unmet sexual needs may tempt partners to seek fulfillment outside the relationship
Impact of Sexual wellness challenges in Families
Sexual wellness issues can sometimes affect the family, including:
- Infertility: Couples trying to conceive may experience stress and emotional strain during fertility challenges.
- Sexual Dysfunction: One partner’s difficulties can create tension and affect the couple’s overall connection.
Families should handle sexual wellness issues with empathy, respect, and privacy. Seeking support from qualified medical professionals or certified psychologists can help resolve problems effectively.
What is Sex Therapy?
Sex therapy is a form of talking therapy where a qualified psychosexual therapist helps you address your concerns about sexual wellness and physical intimacy that are often influenced by emotional or psychological factors.
Sex therapy is open to both individuals and couples. While individuals may seek therapy to improve their relationship with sex and pleasure, couples often reach out to address challenges around intimacy and strengthen their relationship.
Common Myths Around Sex Therapy?
While it is important to understand what sex therapy is, it is equally important to understand what it is not. Below are some common myths about sex therapy that are not true.
- Sex therapy is only for serious or extreme issues: Sex therapy addresses a wide range of concerns and you don’t need to be in a crisis before you seek help.
- Sex therapy involves physical touch or examinations: Sex therapy is completely talk-based and does not involve examinations, physical touch, or sexual activity.
- Only married couples can access sex therapy: Sex therapy is equally open to individuals and unmarried partners in addition to married couples.
Sex Therapy for Individuals vs Couples
While sex therapy is open to both individuals and couples, the challenges they face can be very different. Understanding this can help you choose the right approach.
When to choose individual therapy
- You are not currently in a relationship but want support around sexual wellbeing.
- You feel uncomfortable or anxious discussing sexual concerns in front of your partner.
- You have past sexual trauma or personal beliefs which are affecting your relationship with intimacy.
- You are exploring your sexual identity and confidence.
- You want a private space to understand your emotions and boundaries.
When to choose individual therapy
- You and your partner experience a mismatch in libidos or expectations, and there seems to be communication gap around intimacy.
- You or your partner have sexual concerns that are creating distance in the relationship.
- Both partners are willing to work together in a shared space with the help of a sex counsellor.
Factors Affecting Sexual Wellbeing in Malayalis
Your sexual wellbeing is shaped by the culture, beliefs, values, and messages you are surrounded by as you grow up. For many Malayalis, family and society play equally significant roles in shaping their sexual identity. Below are some of the most common factors that can challenge sexual wellbeing among Malayalis.
Growing up without sex education
Many of us grow up without access to accurate and age-appropriate sex education. As a result, much of what we learn about sex and sexual wellbeing during impressionable years comes from exaggerated or unreliable sources such as movies, novels, or whispered conversations during adolescence.
Shame, silence, or guilt around sex
In many Malayali families, sex remains a taboo subject. This culture of silence can lead to feelings of shame or guilt around natural thoughts, questions, and experiences related to sexuality and pleasure.
Family, marriage, and societal expectations
At different stages of adulthood, many of us face strong pressure from family and society to get married and have children, without much consideration for individual readiness, sexual wellbeing, emotional needs, or sexual orientation.
Common Sexual Concerns Therapy Can Help With
While sexual wellness is just as important as physical wellness, many people suffer in silence due to stigma and the culture of silence surrounding sex. Let’s take a look at some of the most common sexual concerns that sex therapy in Malayalam can effectively help address.
Low or mismatched libido
Differences in sexual desire, such as how often partners want intimacy or one partner feeling less interested than the other, are very common. Sex therapy in Malayalam can help you have an open conversation without the fear of judgement, discovering ways to reconnect physically and emotionally.
Past sexual trauma
Sexual trauma can have a lasting impact on how a person feels about their body image, safety, and intimacy. Without professional support, many survivors struggle to feel comfortable or in control during intimate moments. Sex counselling offers a supportive and trauma-informed space where you can work through these experiences at your own pace.
Painful sex
Pain during sexual activity can become a significant barrier to intimacy. It may be linked to factors such as biological conditions, such as vaginismus, past trauma, anxiety, or fear around intimacy. A sex therapist can help you understand possible causes, explore emotional factors, and learn relaxation and coping techniques to reduce discomfort over time.
Exploring sexual orientation
Exploring one’s sexual orientation may feel isolating due to the stigma around queer identities in and around Kerala. Sex therapy offers a non-judgemental space where you can understand yourself better and explore relationships with self-acceptance.
Take the First Step Towards Better Sexual Wellbeing
Reaching out for support can feel intimidating and awkward, especially when conversations around sex and sexual wellbeing are stigmatised and silenced. But you don’t have to figure this out on your own. Our experienced psychosexual therapists offer sex therapy in Malayalam online, personalised to your needs, goals, and comfort.
Sex Counselling with an Online Malayali Therapist Help You
Talking about sexual health is not easy for many of us, especially when it is surrounded by silence or stigma. Sex therapy in Malayalam offers a culturally sensitive, private, and supportive way to seek help. Here’s what sets online session with Oppam’s psychosexual therapists apart:
- Our therapists are familiar with your cultural context, including the stigma around sexual wellness, so you don’t have to justify why talking about your sexual health might be awkward for you.
- They speak your language, allowing you to communicate emotions and concerns that might be difficult to convey in a second language.
- They offer complete discretion, allowing you to attend online sessions from the comfort of your home, without worrying about being seen at a clinic and having to explain your visit to others.
- You can access flexible support at a time that suits you best, wherever you are in the world.
